Sunday, January 14, 2018

REALITY: A PROCESS
[On Process Philosophy]
By: Atty. Mark Gil J. Ramolete, MA, LLM


            Reality is referred to as a fact of existence. This fact of existence from the perspective of process philosophy is nonetheless processual in nature. Nature likewise is characterized to be processual. Every forms of life and every facet of human life and existence are processual in nature.

            To drive the point further, consider the pictures below. The first picture depicts the “seed germination process[1]” while the second illustration portrays the different “stages in human development[2]”.  The third picture, on the other hand, shows the “periods of human life span[3]” while the fourth picture makes an illustration on “human development[4]” which involves growth and decline that could either be characterized to be positive or negative.




           
    
From the examples and illustrations made above, what do we mean when we speak of a process? By the word process, we mean to a series of events, occasions, steps or actions taken or formed through the progression of time in order to attain a certain goal or end.   Human life is caught in a cycle of birth-growth-decay (and rebirth if one believes in reincarnation). Put it this way as to the process of reincarnation: no one lives the earth and no one dies, that is, one way or another, all are but transformed.

To echo what was mentioned earlier, nature is a process. This is the most fundamental principle that one has to keep in mind whenever one is engaged in the study of process philosophy or process metaphysics. With this fundamental principle at hand, nature being a process is characterized by temporality, historicity, change, passage and novelty. These are among the most fundamental characterization to be reckoned with in our understanding of the world.  
Previously, we mentioned that process refers to series of events, occasions, steps or actions taken or formed through the progression of time in order to attain a certain goal or end. Time in the context of this discussion is neither independent nor separated of its existential content (spatio or space). Temporality and its changes are “perpetually perishing” coupled by the “perpetual emergence” in the “concrescence, coalescence or consolidation of new real.” This point referred to has its origin in the Heraclitian view that “all things flow.” Such is a rejection of the Parmenidean or Atomistic view that nature consists in the changeable interrelations among stable, unchangeable, fixed units of existence.

Process philosophy gives emphasis on change as well as development in all of its aspects over fixity and persistence. Consider the table[5] below which shows a point of comparison between substance philosophy and process philosophy.

Substance Philosophy

Process Philosophy
Discrete individuality

Interactive relatedness
Separateness

Wholeness (totality)
Condition (fixity of nature)

Activity (self-development)
Uniformity of nature

Innovation/novelty
Unity of being (individualized specificity)

Unity of law (functional typology)
Descriptive fixity

Productive energy, drive, etc.
Classificatory stability

Fluidity and evanescence
Passivity (being acted upon)
Activity (agency)

Furthermore, looking at the thematic nature of the operations at hand is one of the most significant ways of classifying process and to further understanding on the said topic. Classifying process based on the following kinds enumerated here though do not exhaust the subject, these “kinds of processes”[6] could one way or another further our understanding of the subject matter being discussed:
A.    Physical causality (in relation to physical changes)
B.     Purposive/teleological (in relation to achieving deliberate objectives)
C.     Cognitive/epistemic (in relation to intellectual problem solving__e.g. programming ourselves for solving a certain sort of problem)
D.    Communicative (in relation to transmitting information)

The 1st, 2nd and 3rd illustrations depicted previously would point primarily to physical causality. The three illustrations primarily point to physical causality inasmuch as these illustrations portrayed physical changes through time. The 4rth illustration, on the other hand, points primarily to communicative process. This is in consideration to the reason as to why such was made which transmit information to the reader on the nature of human development similar to the process of writing this paper in order to transmit information to the reader on the subject matter of process.

To conclude this discussion, to speak of reality as a process being a fact of existence would point to a series of events, occasions, steps or actions taken or formed through the progression of time in order to attain a certain goal or end.







[5][5] Nicholas Rescher, Process Metaphysics (An Introduction to Process Philosophy), USA: State University of New York Press, 1996, p. 35. [hereinafter shall be referred to as process metaphysics]
[6] Process Metaphysics, p. 42.

Monday, January 8, 2018

Philo 25: Feminist Philosophical Texts Syllabus

SAINT LOUIS UNIVERISTY
BAGUIO CITY
SCHOOL OF TEACHER EDUCATION AND LIBERAL ARTS
GRADUATE SCHOOL PROGRAM IN PHILOSOPHY:
Master of Arts in Philosophy
PHILOSOPHY DEPARTMENT
Prepared by: Atty. Mark Gil J. Ramolete, MA Philos, LLM


Philo 25: Feminist Philosophical Texts

Course Description

Feminism is a movement or a frame of mind which takes a multi-disciplinary approach to sex and gender imbalances understood through social theories and political activism.  In the course of  humanity’s story, feminism has evolved from the critical examination of imbalances between the sexes to a more nuanced focus on the social and performative constructions of sexuality and gender.
The campaigns on reproductive rights, domestic violence, gay marriage, and workplace issues such as family, medical leave, equal pay, sexual harassment and discrimination are areas of concern or focus of feminist political activism.
Where any form of stereotyping, objectification, infringements of human rights, or gender or sexuality based oppression occurs, there exist a feminist issue.

Course Objectives:

Feminist theory seeks to inquire into gender imbalances and to effect change in areas where gender and sexual politics create power imbalances, hence, intellectual and academic interpolations of these power imbalances would seek to enable the learners in this course to go into the world aware of injustices and to work toward changing unhealthy gender dynamics in any scenario.

Course Outline:

1.  What is feminism?

2.  7 Things the Word "Feminist" Does Not Mean

3.  The 4 Waves in the Feminist Movement

4.  Pedagogical Mechanisms at Play in a Disciplinary Society
Note: Approximately 25 hours to be devoted on nos. 1-4, including the Midterm Examination
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5.Metaphysical Cannibalism 
 
6.Gender Trouble

7. Women and Cultural Universals

8. Objectification

9. Other related reading materials to be included in the duration course as need arises
Note: Approximately 25 hours to be devoted on nos. 5-8, including the Final Examination

Course Requirements:

1.  Quizzes
2.  Exams
3.  Recitations
4.  Short Papers (TBA)
5. Final paper (TBA)

Computation of Grades:

50% - Class Standing
50% - Major Examination


 References:

1.  Ti-Grace Atkinson, Radical Feminism, (New York, May 1969).
2.  Judith Butler, Psychic of Life Power, (Stanford, California: Stanford University Press, 1997).
3.  Judith Butler, Gender Trouble (Feminism and the Subversion of Idenity, (Great Britain: Routledge, 1999).
4.  Michel Foucault, Discipline and Punish: The Birth of the Prison, trans. Alan Sheridan, (New York: Random House, Inc., 1977).
5.  Michel Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, trans. Robert Hurley, (New York: Penguin Books, 1984).
6.  Michel Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 2: The Use of Pleasure, trans. Robert Hurley, (New York: Penguin Books, 1984).
7.  Luce Irigaray, Je, Tu, Nous: Towards a Culture of Difference, trans. Alison Martin (New York: Routledge, 1993).
8.    Luce Irigaray, Speculum of the Other Woman, trans. By Gillian C. Gill, (New York: Cornell University Press, 1992).
9.  Martha Nussbaum, Sex and Social Justice, (New York: Oxford University Press, 1999).
10.              Mark Gil J. Ramolete, A Feminist Discourse on Sexuality and the Reality of a Repressed Sexuality towards a Valorized Kabuuan, (Baguio City, Philippines: Saint Louis University, 2007).

Electronic References:
1. Suzannah Weiss, 7 Things the Word "Feminist" Does Not Mean, 06 July 2016, retrieved from https://www.bustle.com/articles/170721-7-things-the-word-feminist-does-not-mean.  See as well this other link https://www.bustle.com/articles/74718-are-you-a-feminist-take-this-quiz-to-find-out-once-and-for-all
2. Martha Rampton, Four Waves of Feminism, 25 October 2015, retrieved from  https://www.pacificu.edu/about/media/four-waves-feminism
3.Chimamanda Ngozi Adichi at TEDxEuston, We Should All Be Feminists, 12 April 2013,
, retrieved from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hg3umXU_qWc. See this other link for additional videos
 https://www.ted.com/talks/chimamanda_ngozi_adichie_we_should_all_be_feminists 
4. Are you a feminist? Take the online quiz. Follow this link http://www.gotoquiz.com/are_you_a_feminist_5

Sunday, August 21, 2016

Existentialism

SCHOOL OF TEACHERS EDUCATION AND LIBERAL ARTS
SAINT LOUIS UNIVERSITY 
BAGUIO CITY

Department of Philosophy
MA Philos Program Offsite

PH 208: EXISTENTIALISM


COURSE DESCRIPTION:

Existentialism is not just a movement in the philosophical realm but a movement as well in the artistic and literary spheres. As a movement, it is essentially focused on the multifarious and manifold threat to the likelihood of human freedom. As a movement, it finds its anchorage on the quest of the human person for meaning, the meaning of human existence.

Furthermore, existentialism as a philosophy gives stress and emphasis on personal or individual existence, freedom, choice, rational decisions, personal responsibility for choices made, and other related matters on human existence and the pursuit of the meaning of human existence. Likewise, while the supreme value of existentialist thought is commonly acknowledged to be freedom, its supreme virtue is authenticity.

Existentialism is commonly recognized as the philosophy of the corporeal and particular individual. Existentialism expouses the basic and fundamental value of what its main advocate Jean Paul Sartre calls the "free organic individual," that is, the flesh and blood autonomous agent/subject. Due to the  almost irresistible pull towards conformism in modern society, what is called "existential individuality" is an achievement, and not a permanent one at that. Human beings are born biological beings but must strive to become existential individuals by accepting responsibility for individual actions. This is an application of Friedrich Nietzsche's advice to pursue and "become what you are" as an individual person. A lot of individuals never do acknowledge such responsibility but would rather escape or run away from their existential individuality into the comfort of the faceless crowd.


COURSE OBJECTIVES AND LEARNING GOALS:

1. To become familiar with some of the leading authors as well as concerns/themes of existentialist movement.

2. To cultivate and foster the ability to write clearly and persuasively on philosophical questions that arise on existentialist writing, movie, music or literary piece.

3. To develop their own existential philosophy guided by the common and familiar themes in the existentialist movement using a chosen movie, music or literary piece.


COURSE REQUIREMENTS:

This course will be administered through a combination of face to face interaction and google classroom for a total of fifty-two (52) hrs. Assignments as well as scheduled readings/activities will be posted through google classroom.

There will be short papers, around 2-3 papers through out the duration of the course with 3-5 pages each.

There will be 2 major exams, midterms and finals.

Grades will be be computed at 50-50 percent. 50% for the class standing and 50% for the major exams.


INITIAL TEXTS/READINGS:

1. "Existentialism and the Human Person's Search for Meaning" by Manuel Dy in Philosophy of Man

2. "Existentialism" by Thomas Flyn

3. "Existentialism as Humanism" by Sartre

4. "Letter on Humanism" by Heidegger

5. "Building Dwelling Thinking" by Heidegger

6. "The Human Person as Embodied Subjectivity in its Kabuuan" by Mark Gil Ramolete

7. "On the Way to Freedom" by Robert O. Johann







Monday, February 8, 2016

Polit Sci 10 Guide Questions

Life is NOT always fair…
hence, the need to be prepared without end up getting paranoid of the unexpected.


Guide Questions for Polit Sci 10 (Ethics and Accountability in Phil. Public Service)

On Kantian Ethics (and the concept of dignity)
Reference: “Groundworks of the Metaphysics of Morals” of Immanuel Kant

1.       What is the nature of the Categorical Imperative?
2.       What are the Five Formulations of the Categorical Imperative?



On the Median Principle of Morality (Aristotle )
Reference: “Nichomachean Ethics” of Aristotle

1.       Nature of a Virtue?
2.       Kinds of Virtue?
3.       For Aristotle, by Excellence he meant specifically to what?
4.       Moral excellence…what does it cover?



On the Principle of Utility (Bentham)
Reference: “The Principles of Morals and Legislation” of Jeremy Bentham

1.       Humanity is governed by what?
2.       What is the principle of utility?
3.       What are the seven degrees of felicity?



BENTHAM'S PRINCIPLE OF UTILITY

image screen grabbed from http://www.phil.cmu.edu/Cavalier/80130/part1/sect4/BenandMill.html

Introduction to The Principles of Morals and Legislation (Jeremy Bentham)
Prepared by: Atty. Mark Gil J. Ramolete, MA Philos

Governance of 2 masters:
1.)    Pleasure
2.)    Pain

Four Sources of Pleasure and Pain:
1.)    Moral
2.)    Political
3.)    Physical
4.)    Religious

The Principle of Utility
 = Maximize the experience of pleasure while minimizing the experience of pain

Principles Adverse to the Principle of Utility
1.)    Principle of Antipathy and Sympathy
2.)    Principle of Asceticism

What are the Seven (7) Degrees of Felicity?

(MNEMONIC)
Intense, long, certain, speedy, fruitful, pure
Such marks in pleasures and in pains endure
Such pleasures seek if private be thy end
If it be public, wide let them extend
Such pains avoid whichever be thy view
If pains must come, extend it to the few.


Note:               
Whether one is a policy maker, leader or a magistrate, the PRINCIPLE OF UTILITY MUST NOT be strictly pursued.
                An action, policy or law is right provided and only provided the outcome is the best possible

Thursday, February 5, 2015

On Power, Feminism, the Signifier and the Signified

Pedagogical Mechanisms at Play in a Disciplinary Society[1]
By: Atty. Mark Gil J. Ramolete, MA Philos



INTRODUCTION

The purpose of what follows is to discuss certain pedagogical mechanisms at work in a disciplinary society. This mechanisms must be clearly exposed and unveiled to be understood to do “critique upon limits” with the hope of freeing and entangling “docile bodies”[2] from the shamanistic spells of a disciplinary society.
By pedagogical mechanisms, I mean to refer to power discourses and paradigms kept in place by institutional power brokers and agents like schools, churches, families, states, and other similar institutions that may wield power, control and dominion over the persons of individuals. These pedagogical mechanisms to be discussed are as follows: (a) sexuality made as a domain of panoticized experience by the science of sexuality, (b) institutionalization of bio-power, (c) the phallic structured belief on the mimetic order, (d) the presence of exclusive laws and the dominance of phallic linguistic currencies, (e) the concept of natural substratum, and (f) the objectification of persons. On the other hand, by disciplinary society, I mean to refer to a society that anchors itself on established norms, rules and codes of conducts that are prescribed if not commanded upon member/resident individuals in such society through the prescription and intermediary of prescriptive if not commanding agencies like schools, churches, families, states, and other similar institutions.
The course of my argument will be as follows: First, I will discuss sexuality as a domain of panoticized experience. Second will be the discussion on the institutionalization of bio-power. Third will be the discussion on the phallic structured belief on the mimetic order. Fourth will be the discussion on the presence of exclusive laws and the dominance of phallic linguistic currencies. Fifth will be the discussion on the concept of natural substratum, and lastly, the objectification of persons. These pedagogical mechanisms shall be discussed in the light of Michel Foucault’s views on such topics substantiated by the views of some scholars on the same topics. Having presented the outline of the course of my discussion of the topic presented above, we can now begin our discussion.

SEXUALITY: A DOMAIN OF PANOTICIZED EXPERIENCE[3]
     The views we currently have on sex and at the same time sexuality are basically shaped by two pedagogical paradigms namely ars erotica and scientia sexualis. These two pedagogical paradigms, most specifically that of the views put forward by the science of sexuality which finds anchorage in the power of the confessional and observatory, are fed in our consciousness by power brokers and agents at play in our midst in order that the disciplinary societies we find ourselves embedded into may exercise some level or degree of influence, control or possibly dominion on people’s minds, bodies and consciousness.
There are numerous societies in the past like those in the East who have endowed themselves with ars erotica. The kamasutra, shudo, geisha and devadasi are eastern practices that manifested the engagement with this masterful art. The effects of this masterful art, which are considerably more generous than the spareness of its prescriptions would lead one to imagine, are said to transfigure the one fortunate enough to receive its privileges: an absolute mastery of the body, a singular bliss, obliviousness to time and limits, the elixir of life, the exile of death and its threats.[4]  In the engagement with this masterful art, one is able to transcend the spatial and physical limits of one’s body.   This can be done when the person who engages himself/herself in this art uses his/her power of imagination to go beyond spatial and physical limits. Consequently, the occurrence of a blissful experience in the body and even to the soul is achieved.  Even if one engages in this masterful art, it is not a sufficient guarantee that the person could get the privileges attached in the engagement in this art. Ars erotica just like ars musica provides a reverberating effect not only to the body but also to the soul. When one engages with ars musica, it should be remembered that the person, either the performer or the listener, should be one with the music being produced in order to extend its powerful therapeutic effect to the lonely and searching soul.  Sometimes, some persons do not only project a sweet smile when they hear a certain music, but these persons also cry because from the deepest recesses of themselves, these individuals have been touched by the reverberating effect of the music. Just like ars musica, only when the person unites himself/herself to its purest form in the execution of ars erotica as a masterful art that the person could be considered as the fortunate one who can accept the privileges attached to this art. Different from the performance of ars musica, the performance of the ars erotica must not be publicly made nor to be publicly known, but something that should remain a secret, as Michel Foucault puts in:
This knowledge must be deflected back into the sexual practice itself, in order to shape it as though from within and amplify its effects.  In this way, there is formed a knowledge that must remain a secret, not because of an element of infamy that might attach to its object, but because of the need to hold it in the greatest reserve, since according to tradition it would lose its effectiveness and its virtue by being divulged. Consequently, the relationship to the master who holds the secrets is of paramount importance; only he, working alone, can transmit this art in an esoteric manner and as the culmination of an initiation in which he guides the disciple’s progress with unfailing skill and severity.[5]
The execution of ars erotica must remain a secret not because of the abomination, dishonor or disgrace attached to its intent or purpose which is sex, but for another deeper reason.  In order to intensify and to magnify the experience of bliss through a carnal activity in the skillful execution of ars erotica, its masterful execution must remain clandestine, undisclosed, and surreptitious. Thus, the surveilling effect of the confessional has no basis for its use in the context of ars erotica unlike in the sphere of scientia sexualis.
Medieval to contemporary western societies, on the other hand, have created a totally different approach to sexuality through the establishment of scientia sexualis or the science of sexuality.  As Michel Foucault puts in:
On the face of it at least, our civilization possesses no ars erotica.  In return, it is undoubtedly the only civilization to practice a scientia sexualis; or rather, the only civilization to have developed over the centuries procedures for telling the truth of sex which are geared to a form of knowledge-power strictly opposed to the art of initiations and masterful secret: I have in mind the confession.[6]
While ars erotica has portrayed sex as an exceptional and a blissful experience that is not something dirty, shameful and sinful, scientia sexualis, on the other hand, constitutes an opposite or contrasting view of what sex is. The science of sexuality has depicted sex as a worldly experience or a carnal vice of the flesh portrayed to the extreme with a tendency to produce a dirty, shameful and sinful experience not only to the body of the person but penetrating also the soul. This depiction of sex can be observed through the obsession of certain societies of the confessional, specifically those societies that were cultivated starting from medieval Western societies.     With such portrayal of sex by the science of sexuality, the sexual aspect perceived to be an indispensable aspect of the totality of an individual has to be constantly monitored for a possible transgression of the flesh.   
The creation of this monitoring system to be performed either by the person concerned or by a particular institution is aimed towards the discursive unveiling of the truth about sex. Such an aim, however, is not the ultimate aim. The discursive unveiling of the truth about sex is just a pretext to a deeper end which is the formation of knowledge/power that has to penetrate and course through the already circulating knowledge/power sustaining the existence of persons and institutions in a society. To elaborate further the fixation of the confessional by the science of sexuality, Michel Foucault avers:
Since the Middle Ages at least, Western societies have established the confession as one of the main rituals we rely on for the production of truth: the codification of the sacrament of penance by the Lateran Council in 1215, with the resulting development of confessional techniques, the declining importance of the accusatory procedures in criminal justice, the abandonment of tests of guilt (sworn statements, duels, judgments of God) and the development of methods of interrogation and inquest, the increased participation of the royal administration in the prosecution of infractions, at the expense of proceedings leading to private settlements, the setting up of tribunals of Inquisition: all these helped to give the confession a central role in the order of civil and religious powers.[7]
Such a fixation of the confessional has been formed in order to elicit internal forces and motivations from a person, with the eventual end of protecting the society or providing a blanket of protection for those who are in power. Likewise, such fixation of the confessional can also be seen as a defense mechanism for the dominant sexual culture to constantly linger in time, where such dominant sexual culture is used as the norm and standard in the achievement of a desired sexual pleasure.  Part of the drawing out of information from individuals in these societies is the sexualization of persons. This sexualization of persons takes place where individuals are given specific descriptive names through the predominate sex through which a person is attracted to or is intimately engaged in, thus, the 19th century terms homosexual and heterosexual, and the 20th century term bisexual. This sexualization of individuals has been put into place to provide the necessary vertebrae of the discursive unveiling of the truth about sex, that is, the hermeneutically construed truth about the limitless and extensive causal power of sex. By categorizing individuals according to the predominate sex through which a person is attracted to or is intimately engaged in, this act of categorization can facilitate further the ought-to-be observance of a desired sexual pleasure and redirection of pleasure.  These ought to be observances of a desired sexual pleasure and the redirections of pleasure have to be strictly anchored on the values that have been put into place by the dominant sexual culture, in this case, the dominant heterosexual culture. It can be seen in this case that the individualization of individuals is facilitated through the sexualization of persons. Persons come to know themselves as subjects of desires and pleasures through their sexualization.     
To further elucidate the confessional as a ritual of discourse where sex has been caught in a discursive form, Michel Foucault offers a descriptive view on how the confession works:
The confession as a ritual of discourse in which the speaking subject is also the subject of the statement; it is also a ritual that unfolds within a power relationship, for one does not confess without the presence (or virtual presence) of a partner who is not simply the interlocutor but the authority who requires the confession, prescribes and appreciates it and intervenes in order to judge, punish, forgive, console, and reconcile; a ritual in which the truth is corroborated by the obstacles and resistances it has to surmount  in order to be formulated; and finally, a ritual in which the expression alone, independently of its external consequences, produces intrinsic modifications in the person who articulates it: it exonerates, redeems, and purifies him; it unburdens him of his wrongs, liberates him, and promises him salvation.[8] 
In order to elicit information from a person who is subjected to the confessional, the company of another individual or individuals who shepherd or even coerce one to speak play a crucial and indispensable role. The reason behind this is that the standing of that who confesses presupposes the need for guidance or even therapeutic or punitive transformation of the person concerned. As this ritual works within a person or between or among persons, the confession creates and sustains power relationships. The creation and sustenance of power relationships take place because the position of the subject that listens and acts on what one has listened from another subject is inevitably different from the standing of the person who confesses or speaks. In this case, the confession unfolds within power relationships and at the same time allows the further intensification of these power relationships.
By allowing the secret of the flesh and the body to be examined, interpreted, or even reformulated, the individualization of individuals through their sexualization can be achieved, and thereby contributing to the already circulating knowledge/power. As Michel Foucault claims, “it is in the confession that truth and sex are joined, through the obligatory and exhaustive expression of an individual secret; this time it is truth that serves as a medium  of sex and its manifestations.”[9]  Through the immersion of sex in a discursive form because of the perceived limitless causal power of sex, sexuality has been treated as a moving force within a person.  As a moving force in a person, sexuality has to be constantly confessed, examined, and articulated. Any possible transgression of the flesh has to remain open and known to be given the possible therapeutic redirection of pleasures. As Michel Foucault avers:
It is no longer a question simply of saying what was done__the sexual act__and how it was done; but of reconstructing, in and around the act, the thoughts that recapitulated it, the obsessions that accompanied it, the images, desires, modulations, and quality of the pleasure that animated it.   For the first time no doubt, a society has taken upon itself to solicit and hear the imparting of individual pleasures.[10]
Any craving for pleasures, though there is still the need to keep such enjoyment of pleasures in secret, has to conform to social prescriptions that have been put into place in the relationships of individuals for their proper observance.  Consequently, any construction of truth has been treated as means for sex to be further known and for every expressions of sex to be comprehended.
The fixation of the confessional by societies that have endowed themselves with the science of sexuality concerning the discursive unveiling of the truth about sex is firmly rooted in the argument, that “principle that endowed sex with an inexhaustible and polymorphous causal power.”[11] As Michel Foucault puts in:
The principle of sex as a “cause of any and everything” was the theoretical underside of a confession that had to be thorough, meticulous, and constant, and at the same time operate within a scientific type of practice.  The limitless dangers that sex carried with it justified the exhaustive character of the inquisition to which it was subjected.[12]
The perceived inexhaustible and extensive causal power of sex has not only affected and influenced the way people think and behave in the West, but also in the East. The different history of conquest and occupation of Western countries of Eastern lands had brought into the shores of the East the principle of sex as the “cause of any and everything.”  In such case, it resulted to the teaching and to the encouragement of people in the East to idealize and to practice the confessional as a means of getting in touch and in control of the possible transgression of the vice of the flesh and the possible redirection of erotic desires to experience pleasure. It is now this principle of sex as the “cause of any and everything” constituted by the science of sexuality that has supported and buttressed the views of many to consider sexuality as something that is purely and entirely a natural category. In this context, many have treated sexuality as an already there category in the self, that is, something that is already given in the self that there is no more human action involved when it comes to sexuality. This could be the reason why some oftentimes scorn, laugh, insult or stereotype some individuals who have gone against the sexuality that is deemed socially and statistically normal or natural.  As Michel Foucault puts in:
Situated at the point of intersection of a technique of confession and a scientific discursivity, where a certain major mechanisms had to be found for adapting them to one another (the listening technique, the postulate of causality, the principle of latency, the rule of interpretation, the imperative of medicalization), sexuality was defined as being “by nature”: a domain susceptible to pathological processes, and hence one calling for therapeutic or normalizing interventions; a field of meanings to decipher; the site of processes concealed by specific mechanisms; a focus of indefinite causal relations; and an obscure speech (parole) that had to be ferreted out and listened to.[13]   
Caught in a crossroad between the technique of confession and scientific discursivity, sexuality has been treated as a purely and entirely natural domain in the totality of the individula. The interest to know sexuality in a scientific way by the science of sexuality opens up possibilities to construe sexuality as an inherent-biological category.   Nonetheless, the meeting of Western minds with Eastern minds did not also prevent some of the ideas of some societies in the East particularly their versions of the erotic art to influence and to affect the way some people in the West think and behave. One concrete example is the unveiling to the West the then perceived notorious work of Indian eroticism called the Kamasutra. The Kamasutra contains principles of love that classify and categorize almost every kind of sexual union in a practically precise and accurate way. In a sexually repressive atmosphere in Victorian Britain in 1883 when the first secret publication of the Kamasutra took place, the Kamasutra was openly condemned; however, the Kamasutra soon became one of the most pirated books in the English language.[14]  However, the interplay of ideas about sex and sexuality produced by ars erotica and scientia sexualis through the encounters of people from the East and the West has not prevented the science of sexuality to take a dominant role in shaping views, beliefs and perspectives about sexuality.   This dominant role assumed by scientia sexualis can be observed on how most societies value the indispensable role assumed by the confessional not only in religious institutions, but including also academic, political, social, judicial and economic institutions. The obligation to confess is now relayed through so many different points, is so deeply ingrained in us, that we no longer perceive it as the effect of a power that constrains us; on the contrary, it seems to us that truth, lodged in our most secret nature, “demands” only to surface; that if it fails to do so, this is because a constraint holds it in place, the violence of a power weighs it down, and it can finally be articulated only at the price of a kind of liberation.[15]  
An illustration on how most societies, specifically disciplinary societies have constituted the act of confessing as an obligation is the encouragement of some religious institutions of their respective flocks to constantly confess their sins (not excluding those hermeneutically construed sexual sins like solo-me) to experience purification or “kaginhawaan ng loob at kaluluwa.” Another example is the encouragement of a rape victim in a rape case and the encouragement or the coercion of a rapist to confess in a precise, accurate and immaculate way to the court what actually transpired during the occasion of rape. The objective now of eliciting information from both parties in a rape case is to render a just and fair judgment.  The rendered judgment in return can be utilized to punish, to correct or to reform and to set as an example to others to be in control of themselves and to redirect their pleasures according to standards and norms at work in the society.        
INSTITUTIONALIZATION OF BIO-POWER
It is through the power of life that the continuous temporal existence of persons in this world is assured.   However, it is also through the power of death that the end of persons’ temporal occurrence in every individual’s own situatedness as embodied subjectivities is experienced. Through the inevitable contradiction involved between life and death, people have devised certain mechanisms of transcending death while still alive.  These mechanisms can be considered as means of lording over death in order to exercise power over life.  Some would prefer to plant a tree.  Some would prefer to write a book or any written document that can be published. Some would prefer to have a legitimate or an illegitimate son or daughter.  All these are mechanisms that are devised in order to transcend death. By planting a tree, one can leave a legacy through the fruits of the tree or the end products of the tree.  By writing a book or any written document that can be published, one can leave a legacy through the story or the epistemological contribution that others will have to remember or to reminisce.  By having a son or a daughter, one will be assured of continuous existence of one self through the genes that will be passed down to one’s children through the help of another generative cell from another person.  From these alternatives is the mechanism that primarily originated from the West’s practice of the science of sexuality. Michael Foucault calls this as “bio-power” which he describes as ”the power over life, throughout its unfolding, that power establishes its dominion; death is power’s limit, the moment that escapes it; death becomes the most secret aspect of existence, the most private.”[16]  Because of the desire to experience life in the best possible way, the concept of “bio-power,” has been devised, enforced and institutionalized in people’s socially constructed purview through the anchorage point provided for by the sovereign power of the state in order to “bring life and its mechanisms into the realm of explicit calculations and made knowledge-power an agent of transformation of life.”[17] 
In order to regulate life or to exercise a certain kind of power over life, individual bodies of persons and populations have to be subjected to power for their standardization and normalization.  Michel Foucault clarifies:
It was at the pivot of the two axes along which developed the entire political technology of life.   On the one hand, it was tied to the disciplines of the body: the harnessing, intensification, and distribution of forces, the adjustment and economy of energies. On the other hand, it was applied to the regulation of populations, through all the far-reaching effects of its activity.[18]
Because of the Western belief produced by the practice of the science of sexuality, that sexuality can be considered as “a means of access both to the life of the body and the life of the species, sexuality was employed as the principle of measure and intelligibility for the disciplines and as basis for regulations.”[19]   As Michel Foucault further elucidates:
This is why in the nineteenth century sexuality was sought out in the smallest details of individual existence;, it was traced down in behavior, pursued in dreams; it was suspected of underlying the least follies, it was traced back into the earliest years of childhood; it became the stamp of individuality___at the same time what enabled one to analyze the latter and what made it possible to master it.[20] 
Individualization in this case is achieved into what is called the sexualization of persons. This sexualization of persons can only take place through the standardizations or normalizations of behavior anchored on the supposed “pagkatao” of the person. This individualization of persons in a given society can only take its desired shape and form provided that something is standardized and normalized only if something has not been standardized and normalized. Michel Foucault continues:
But one also sees sexuality becoming the theme of political operations, economic interventions (through incitements to or curbs on procreation), and ideological campaigns for raising standards of morality and responsibility: it was put forward as the index of a society’s strength, revealing of both its political energy and its biological vigor. Spread out from one pole to the other of this technology of sex was a whole series of different tactics that combined in varying proportions the objective of disciplining the body and that of regulating populations.[21]  
The “two poles of bio-power,” namely, “the procedures of power that characterized the disciplines: an anatomo-politics of the human body and the entire series of interventions and regulatory controls: a bio-politics of the population”[22] ensure the constitution, organization and eventually the institutionalization of the “technology of life.” Michel Foucault uses the term bio-power in the same way with the power over life and technology of life. Nonetheless, be it bio-power or power over life or even technology of life, all terms are pointing out to that kind of power that has the aim to regulate and administer life.
Because of the perceived indispensable role of sexuality in inter-subjective relations and the crucial role assumed by sex in the continuous existence of people as an essential element of a state or a society, sexuality  through “sex became a crucial target of a power organized around the management of life rather than the menace of death.”[23]  
While it may be true that bio-power is organized and institutionalized because of the need to manage and to administer life, the fact is the administration and management of life are mere pretext to address that deepest fear of humanity———death. This fear of humanity is the fear of the menace and threat of death since the human person who possesses a temporal body is a “being-towards-death.” Once the human person enters the threshold of death, he/she will be doomed into the most private form or shape of existence.  The elicitation of information about his/her life, “pagkatao” or any practice of the self will be considered to be the most difficult endeavor to be done assuming that it is still possible to be done.  This can be the reason why under the criminal justice system of the Philippines provides that “criminal liability is totally extinguished by the death of the convict, as to the personal penalties; and as to pecuniary penalties, liability therefore is extinguished only when the death of the offender occur before final judgment.”[24]   There is no more use continuing the trial of the accused and the continuous elicitation of information in order to render judgment when the accused is already dead. Indeed, elicitation of information to ensure the enhancement or to ensure the correction of any practice of the self is only made significant when the affected person is still alive; thus, the need to manage and to administer life. Furthermore, with the desire of most human beings to respond to the most primal need towards self-preservation, different norms, practices, rules and regulations have been constituted and enforced in order to manage and to administer life in order to satisfy this primordial need.  Since sexuality through sex has been viewed to provide a convenient approach to the existence of the body and to the existence of the species, sexuality has thus become central in the deployment of the technology of life.

THE PHALLIC STRUCTURED BELIEF ON THE MIMETIC ORDER
Is it always necessary and obligatory that if one possesses a penis, then that person has to display and project aggressive tendencies?  If one possesses a vagina, then is it always necessary and compulsory that the person concerned should display and project passive tendencies and capabilities? Under the psychoanalytic tradition developed by the father of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud, a concept emerged——the mimetic order.  It states that the masculine is taken to signify “activeness” while the feminine, on the other hand, is taken to signify “passiveness.”   The notion of passivity and activeness is derived from the movement of the sperm and the egg in the process of copulation.   During the process of copulation, the male pursues the female for the purpose of sexual union, seizes hold of her and penetrates her.[25] The generative cell with a tail produced by the male subject in the form of a sperm is anatomically considered to be actively mobile while the ovum produced by the female subject is treated to be passive in the fertilization process.   The sperm has to swim and search the ovum inside the female body in order for the ovum to be fertilized.  In the fertilization process, the one who enters and swims into a foreign body (the female body) in order to inseminate is the gamete or the sperm.  Thus, the term active has been ascribed to the male subject because of the generative cell that comes out from him.  The ovum or the egg, on the other hand, does not anymore need in the fertilization process to enter and swim into a foreign body in order to be fertilized.   The egg after its release from the ovary to be fertilized in the fallopian tube shall simply wait for an appropriate encounter with one potential and victorious sperm after surviving the long-distance swim to the tube.  Thus, the term passivity has been ascribed to the female subject because of the generative cell that comes out from her. Once the ovum is fertilized inside the tube, where most fertilization takes place, the ovum must be implanted in the uterus. Since it is natural for a male to produce a sperm and a female to produce an egg, persons in certain societies have mimed the relationship of the sperm and the egg in the way these persons think, act and behave as human subjects.   As Luce Irigaray writes:
My way of envisaging things, these “things,” would therefore imply that the psychic is prescribed by the anatomical according to a mimetic order, with anatomical science imposing the truth of its model upon “psychological behaviors.”[26]
The given remark of Luce Irigaray is intended to expose that through the intimate adherence of anatomical science to the mimetic order, anatomical science has provided a framework for both male and female subjects to think, to conceptualize, and to visualize themselves as active and passive subjects respectively in a phallocratic ordered society. The anatomical science can be considered as the agent or the receptacle through which the mimetic order is perpetuated in the psyche of concerned human subjects. As an agent towards the perpetuation of the mimetic order, anatomical science constituted the so-called “anatomical model.”[27] It may not have been the intention of anatomical science to impose its own truth among the psyche of some persons, but anatomical science through the “anatomical model” has provided the necessary conditioning for some human subjects in a phallocratic ordered society to believe in the notion of passivity and aggressiveness basing it on the phallic structured belief in the mimetic order. Such conditioning has acquired its necessary form through the incorporation of anatomical science in its scientific linguistic economy active and passive terms specified in the “anatomical model.” This gives rise to the experience of sexual repression.
The phallic structured belief in the mimetic order can be seen as the matrix of a repressed sexuality. But how can a repressed sexuality in this context arise? A person can experience a repressed sexuality through its immersion and belongingness in a phallucratic ordered society. But what is with a phallic society that can expose a person to the experience of a repressed sexuality? It is primarily due to the intimate connection and adherence of anatomical science to the mimetic order, providing male and female persons in a phallucratic ordered society a framework or mentality to constitute themselves as aggressive and passive subjects, respectively.
The phallic structured belief in the mimetic order has contributed on the way persons of unorthodox sexualities are viewed.  This belief on the mimetic order has provided the very foundation through which the notion of unintelligible genders is articulated on the basis of “intelligible genders.”[28] 
Likewise, “intelligible genders” are accorded their cultural legitimacy status not only because of the belief on the mimetic order, but also because of the principle that came out as a result of the phallic structured belief on this order. This principle refers to the “principle of coherence and continuity.”[29]  To illustrate this principle vis-à-vis to the constitution of intelligible genders, let us take the case of Nataraki and Nasudi. Nataraki is male because he is born with a penis.  Since Nataraki has a penis, the culture of Natariki dictates that he is a man. Consequently, Nataraki’s culture dictates that he should desire the other gender.  If Nataraki observes the “principle of continuity and coherence” as prescribed by his culture, that is, the connectedness or the inter-connectedness of sex-gender-desire/male-man-desire a woman, then Nataraki is considered to have an “intelligible gender.” With Nataraki’s observance of the societal-cultural prescription of being a man without any discontinuity or interruption, Nataraki’s gender as a man is considered comprehensible, sensible, easily understandable or even logical. Nasudi is female because she is born with a vagina. Since Nasudi has a vagina, the culture of Nasudi dictates that she is a woman. Consequently, since Nasudi is a woman, Nasudi’s culture dictates that she should desire the other gender. If Nasudi observes the “principle of continuity and coherence” as prescribed by her culture, that is, the connectedness or the inter-connectedness of sex-gender-desire/female-woman-desire a man, then Nasudi is considered to have an “intelligible gender” just like in the case of Nataraki. Assuming that Nasudi observes the societal-cultural prescription of being a woman without any discontinuity or interruption, the conclusion is Nasudi’s gender as a woman is considered comprehensible, sensible, easily understandable or even logical just like with Nataraki.   However, if Nataraki and Nasudi will both commit an interruption and discontinuity from the “principle of continuity and coherence” prescribed by their cultures by desiring or through an intimate sharing of libidinal desires with the same sex or even to both sexes, then both Nataraki and Nasudi will be considered as having “unintelligible genders,” genders that will be considered queer, peculiar and difficult to comprehend. The sexualization of Nataraki and Nasudi as desiring subjects with either “intelligible genders” or unintelligible genders is inseparable from a cultural matrix. Because of not having subservient identities or simply because of having non-conformist genders in accordance to the “principle of coherence and continuity,” some persons would have to bear the experience of being stereotyped, scorned, hated, insulted, ostracized, dehumanized, and objectified because of their sex or their sexuality.[30]  
     In an interview made by IRIN (Integrated Regional Information Networks) with Dawn Betteridge, Betteridge[31], Betteridge remarks:
     Sexual orientation does not in itself make the LGBT community targets of abuse.   The problem is that of patriarchy.   By adapting the clothing, behavior typical of a “butch lesbian” or the “effeminate male,” the LGBT community is perceived as a threat to masculine dominance.   Lesbians who mimic men are seen to be challenging male superiority.  Rape and violence against lesbians are common. The men who perpetrate such crimes see rape as curative and as an attempt to show women their place in society.[32]
     To perceive rape by some as curative is but a concrete manifestation of a society that has deeply absorbed the ideals of the mimetic order, that is, that women should be penetrated while men should do the penetrating act. Such belief simply reinforces the notion of passivity and activeness.  
Though sexual repressions commonly occur among women, men, too, are victimized. Take for example the harsh and repressive treatment of homosexuals in Iraq is a problem that is deeply rooted not only in the local culture, but has also religious underpinnings. As Sheikh Ali Amar, a cleric at a mosque in Baghdad explains, “Muslims believe that homosexual behavior is an offence against Islam and anyone who behaves this way should be sentenced to death without compassion."[33] This given explanation could also be the reason why discrimination against persons because of their sexual orientation is not only rampant in Iraq but also in Iran. In a report[34] made by IRIN, two teenagers on the 19th of July 2005, Mahmoud Asgari, who was then 16 years old, and Ayaz Marhoni, who was then 18 years old, were publicly hanged in Mashad, provincial capital of Iran’s northestern Khorasan province, on charges of homosexuality. Prior to the boys’ executions, the teenagers were reportedly held in prison for 14 months and severely beaten with 228 lashes. While Iranian authorities asserted that the two were part of a criminal gang that raped a 13 year old boy, some human rights groups were arguing instead that Asgari and Marhoni were apprehended, tortured and eventually executed for “mutual consensual sex.”
     From all the previously discussed instances of sexual repression, one distinctive attribute is common to all of them, that is, all the persons involved have committed an interruption and discontinuity from the “principle of continuity and coherence” prescribed by their cultures by desiring or through an intimate sharing of libidinal desires with the same sex or even to both sexes. These persons have been considered as having “unintelligible genders,” genders that have been considered queer, peculiar, and difficult to comprehend. Such linguistic constitution of the idea of who is queer, peculiar and difficult to comprehend again points to the direction of the phallic structured belief on the mimetic order.  With the constitution of the linguistic currency of passivity and activeness, the 21st century homosexual not only the “19th century homosexual became a personage, a past, a case history, and a childhood, in addition to being a type of life, a life form, and a morphology, with an indiscreet anatomy and possibly a mysterious physiology”[35] where the confessional in a religious, political or psychological strategization has assumed a crucial role as to the formation of knowledge-power relation vis-à-vis to the sexual desires of persons. The eventual constitution of the homosexual as an individualized person has been ensured with the culture of exclusion anchored on the principle of permission and prohibition.  This is to say that if something is permitted, then something must have been prohibited. The heterosexualization of desire is permitted and prescribed.   Therefore, homoeroticism or the homosexualization of desire or even the bisexualization of desire is prohibited where the dominant sexual culture is anchored on the heterosexualization of desires and intimate relationships. Such prohibition is constituted as a means of ensuring the dominant existence of the permitted and the prescribed. Permitting the existence of a prescribed and desired sexuality necessitates the need to prohibit a sexuality that is not desired and not prescribed.   With the interplay of prohibition and permission in shaping and reshaping the meaning of sexuality, docile or subservient identities and rebellious or assertive identities are constituted.  
  Sexual repression is neither a fabricated issue nor an invented issue by persons who are treated to belong to the so-called sexual minorities just to demand for the recognition of their rights for their protection as persons.  Sexual repression arises as a necessary consequence of having a society whose cultural libidinal ideals are conditioned, influenced and shaped by the belief on the mimetic order.

EXCLUSIVE LAWS AND PHALLIC LINGUISTIC CURRENCIES
People do not only need love and sex for the continuous existence of the species.  They also need laws to regulate human behaviors. Laws can be considered as places of refuge where people seek shelter against the encroachment and intrusion of their basic rights, such as the right to life, liberty and property, as individuals in a given community.   As provided for under the 1987 Philippine Constitution, “no person shall be deprived of life, liberty or property without due process of law, nor shall any person be denied the equal protection of the laws.”   
     Law are like atolls or islets of empowerment. For the continuous existence of human species, love and sex have to be complemented by laws. Laws help to promote and ensure the actualization of meaningful relationships in people’s modes of togetherness as subjects.   But how do laws come into being to secure their much needed presence in existing modes of togetherness as subjects?   Before laws are promulgated and eventually be enforced by a legitimate or a sovereign power, laws should be given the necessary form by language.  Language refers to anything that can be spoken, conceived and understood.    Language refers to an open system of signs by which intelligibility is insistently created and contested.[36]   Language serves as a medium through which something is represented, articulated and signified.  Functionally, it is through language that something is normalized, standardized, abnormalized and excluded. Love is embodied in the person of the lover or the beloved while the meanings that the lover or beloved wants to convey can be expressed through the embodiment of language; laws are also embodied through language. The lifeblood of laws is not only generated by a legitimate or a sovereign power promulgating or enforcing the laws, but also through the embodiment of language. Laws can guide human actions and regulate human conducts to promote meaningful relationships because laws have the potential to effectuate their binding powers through language. As pointed out by Thomas Aquinas in the Summa Theologica, “law is a rule and measure of acts whereby man is induced to act or is restrained from acting; for lex (law) is derived from ligare (to bind), because it binds one to act.”[37]  However, it is important to note that language and its function in laws may valorize only the masculine while the feminine is not being valorized in certain areas of human relationships. Adapting the feminist view of Luce Irigaray in the je, tu, nous, she points:
Because the power of semen is not immediately obvious in procreation, it’s relayed by the linguistic code, logos.   This wants to become the all-embracing truth.   Men’s appropriation of the linguistic code attempts to do at least three things: (1) prove they are fathers; (2) prove they are more powerful than mother-women; (3) prove they are capable of engendering the cultural domain as they have been engendered in the natural domain of the ovum, the womb, the body of a woman.[38]
In Filipino cultures, fathers are considered as the “haligi ng tahanan” while the mothers are considered as the “ilaw ng tahanan.”  In this kind of hermeneutical twist, these cultures have given more preference and inclination to the masculine or the male subject in terms of the constitution of certain meanings in the context of certain modes of human relationships. This leads to the marginalization not only of female subjects but also some male subjects. For instance, usually on a date, customs dictate that it should be the man who should treat and pay for the bills because as a future “haligi ng tahanan,” he should be a good provider not only for his wife but to his children as well. Some female subjects would even prefer to have boyfriends that are sporting a particular brand of car or a motor bike to show that their boyfriends have the potential to become a good provider. It is noticeable also that as beings thrown into the world through the romantic relationships involved between parents, children are given names for social and at the same time for legal recognition from others. Examining carefully how names are arranged, mothers’ surnames in the Philippines are pitifully and obscurely placed in a non-strategic location between the first name and the surname that is under the paternal linguistic economy.[39] All these cited examples only point to one direction that the father is the “haligi ng tahanan” and the mother is the “ilaw ng tahanan.”  Luce Irigaray shares the view when she remarks:
Man seems to have wanted, directly or indirectly, to give the universe his own gender, as he has wanted to give his own name to his children, his wife, his possessions.[40] 
These views regarding the “haligi ng tahanan” and the “ilaw ng tahanan” have been carried to the extent that they have also influenced the shaping and molding of some provisions of law under Family Code of the Philippines.  The Family Code provides:
The future spouses may, in the marriage settlements, agree upon the regime of absolute community, conjugal partnerships or gains, complete separation of property, or any other regime to govern their property relations. In the absence of a marriage settlement, or when the regime agreed upon is void, the system of absolute community of property as established in the Family Code shall govern.[41] 
     Under this provision of law, it is a general rule that when the spouses failed to come up with a valid and legally binding marriage settlement before the marriage or when the marriage settlement agreed upon is contrary to law, good morals, good customs, public order and public policy, then the regime of absolute community shall govern the property relations of the spouses.  In order for the marriage settlement as well as any of its modification in correlation to other guidelines set forth by the Family Code to become legally binding not only between the spouses but also to third parties, certain requisites as provided for by the Family Code should be followed, namely: (1) it must be in writing, (2) it should be signed by the future spouses involved,(3) it must be executed before the celebration of the marriage, (4) the marriage must be celebrated, (5) and it should be duly registered in the civil registry and registry of property to bind third persons.[42]
Under the regime of absolute community of property, everything shall be held in common, and the provisions of the Civil Code on co-ownership shall complement whatever matters not provided for by the Family Code regarding the absolute community of property between future spouses. What constitutes then the absolute community of property?  The Family Code provides:
Unless otherwise provide by the Family Code or in the Marriage settlements, the community property shall consist of all the property owned by the spouses at the time of the celebration of the marriage or acquired thereafter.   However, the following shall be excluded from the community property:   (1) property acquired during the marriage by gratuitous title by either spouse, and the fruits as well as the income thereof, if any, unless it is expressly provided by the donor, testator or grantor that they shall form part of the community property; (2) property for personal and exclusive use of either spouse; nonetheless, jewelries shall form part of the community property; (3) property acquired before the marriage by either spouse who has legitimate descendants by a former marriage, and the fruits as well as the income, if any, of such property.[43]
In consonance now with the law, donated properties, bonuses, properties which are considered inheritance and underwear are only few examples of properties deemed not included in the absolute community of property.  Be it noted that the provision of the law on the administration and enjoyment of the community property is also similar to the conjugal partnership property. The Family Code provides:
The administration and enjoyment of the community property (or the conjugal partnership property) shall belong to both spouses jointly.  In case of disagreement, the husband’s decision shall prevail, subject to recourse to the court by the wife for a proper remedy, which must be availed of within five years from the date of the contract implementing such decision. In the event that one spouse is incapacitated or otherwise unable to participate in the administration of the common properties (or conjugal properties), the other spouse assume sole powers of administration. These powers do not include the powers of disposition or encumbrance which must have the authority of the court or the written consent of the other spouse.  In the absence of such authority or consent, the disposition or encumbrance shall be void. However, the transaction shall be construed as a continuing offer on the part of the consenting spouse and the third person, and may be perfected as a binding contract upon the acceptance by the other spouse or authorization by the court before offer is withdrawn by either or both offerors.[44]
It is by this assertion or enunciation of the law that shows preference to the “haligi ng tahanan.”  As a general rule, the administration or enjoyment of the community properties or the conjugal properties shall belong to both spouses jointly.   Exception to the general rule, in case of disagreement in the administration and enjoyment of the community properties or conjugal properties (not covering disposition or encumbrance) between the spouses, the decision of the husband shall prevail, subject to recourse to the court by the wife for a proper remedy with five years prescriptive period; otherwise, the contract will become legally binding. Simple disagreement alone or disagreement per se cannot be the cause for the setting aside of the contract.  As pointed out by Former Associate Justice of the Supreme Court, Jose C. Vitug:
The “disagreement” itself” does not constitute per se a cause for setting aside, for instance, the contract entered into in the implementation of that decision, which the law, in effect, authorizes when it had provided that “the husband’s decision shall prevail.”   The contract of course, may be annulled or rescinded but limited to grounds that, under the laws of general application, may render them either as voidable or as rescissible.[45]
When, for example, the husband secured the consent of the wife to mortgage or to sell a community property or a conjugal property with a vitiated consent through mistake, violence, intimidation, undue influence or fraud, then the wife could file a case in court for a proper remedy.  But if the wife is just a plain housewife, waiting for an allowance either from her husband or from her sons or daughters, or the wife is just earning an income good only for her own subsistence, how could the wife file a case in court?  Assuming that the wife will avail of the services of the Public Attorney’s Office, still the wife cannot escape the fact that she will still be spending a considerable amount. These possible scenarios only demonstrate the inconvenience that the wife may have to go through because of phallic inclined provisions of law incorporated in the Family Code.
In terms of law on the enjoyment and administration of the community properties or conjugal properties, the following provision of law in the Family Code also shows more preference and inclinationation to the “haligi ng tahana” as compared to the “ilaw ng tahanan:”
The father and the mother shall jointly exercise parental authority over the persons of their common children.   In case of disagreement, the father’s decision shall prevail, unless there is a judicial order to the contrary.[46]  Furthermore, the law contends that the father and the mother shall jointly exercise legal guardianship over the property of their unemancipated common child without the necessity of a court appointment. In case of disagreement, the father’s decision shall prevail, unless there is a judicial order to the contrary.[47]
It is a common scenario in families that some mothers do not usually aggressively assert their own voice in the family.  Sometimes, when a child asks permission from the mother to date someone or to engage in a particular endeavor, the mother usually says, “consult first your father before I give my permission.”  
Besides the laws and practices mentioned that have glorified and have given more preference and emphasis to the masculine or the phallus, there are also the sodomy laws and other similar laws that strictly forbid and prohibit penetrative sex even if done by two consenting male adults because of the deeply entrenched belief that it is against nature or deemed unnatural. Some of the countries that has Anti-sodomy laws include Iran, Iraq, Saudi Arabia, United Arab Emirates, Yemen, Afghanistan and India.  These countries and the others together with laws against homosexuality that they perpetuate simply cater persons to the exclusionary mode of standardizing and normalizing sexual desires and behaviors. As U.N. Secretary General Ban KI-moon said in a speech he made in New Delhi India on January 12, 2015, “anti-sodomy laws breed intolerance.” With the presence of these laws as anchored in the active versus passive sexual framework advocated by the mimetic theory, the heterosexual eroticizations of persons are ensured.  Consequently, it clearly sets a culturally marked demarcation line between what is sexually natural and what is sexually unnatural. However, the problem that is now contributing to the sexual repression and marginalization of persons of unorthodox sexualities is the making of what is culturally agreed upon as natural. In other words, the problem is rooted in the transformation of what is numerically constituted as normal as that which is natural, and what is not numerically constituted as normal as that which is unnatural, aberrant, even sinful or immoral. This is primarily the problem why gay persons like Tariq are forced to live a life full of lies.  Tariq, who was then a 24 year old fine arts student in Lahore, Pakistan at the time of the interview with IRIN, shares his experience of sexual repression as a gay person:
My life is a lie and I know it. Part of the lie is agreeing to a marriage arranged by the family.   People here are not ready to talk about homosexuality so they are certainly not ready to talk about gay rights.   They tell me it’s a sin to be gay.   But the real sin is not being allowed to be who I am.[48] 
Living in a context similar to that of Tariq would really force a person to live in the closet; otherwise, he/she could potentially experience not only the marginalizing effect of the socially standardized heterosexual norm but also the ostracizing arm of the law.  In a similar situation with that of Tariq, the problem of “honor killing”[49]  that finds support in some legal codes or doctrines has placed the lives of some individuals in dismal situations and will continue to do so.  One such example is Article 111 of the Iraqi Penal Code that exempts from prosecution and punishment men who kill other men or female relative in defense of their family’s honor.   Article 111 of the Iraqi Penal Code provides that he who discovers his wife, one of his female relatives committing adultery or a male relative engaged in sodomy then kills, wounds or injures one of them, is exempted from any penalty. According to the Human Rights Ministry in Iraq, the problem of honor killing often occurs when a man is believed to be gay.   This is evident in the statement of Abu Qussay who had killed his son after discovering that his son was gay. Abu Qussay shares in an interview made by IRIN:
I hanged him in my house in front of his brother to give an example to all of them and prevent them from doing the same.[50]
IRIN reports that after the murder, Qussay was arrested, and he was charged with the killing but released after one month in prison after a defense lawyer explained why Qussay committed the crime.   Besides Abu Qussay, Kudaifa Abdul Lateff could also possibly become a potential killer in the name of honor.   Kudaifa Abdul Lateff shares how he deeply despised homosexuals in an interview made by IRIN:
If I found that my son was doing something like that (referring to the involvement of some male teenage Iraqis in the commercial sex trade through force, fraud or consent), I would kill him straight away, because it is an offense against GOD and a crime against honor.  Homosexuals are nothing more than animals.[51]
Honor killing is not just a problem suffered by persons having unorthodox sexualities in extremely sexually repressive societies like Iraq, but also a problem where oftentimes the victims are women.   In a documentary made by Hemisphere, it has been reported that “each year the United Nations estimates that 5,000 women are killed around the world murdered by fathers, brothers, and husbands for so-called immoral behaviors as having an affair or taking a man without the father’s approval.  The actual number of victims could be much higher since the majority of crimes are unreported.”[52] If governments concerned like Iraq, Jordan and Pakistan just to name a few of these countries where honor killing is practiced would not get tough with their jobs to throw away the practice into complete oblivion, more and more persons will continuously suffer a grim fate or worst, subjected to painful or horrible deaths.

THE CONCEPT OF NATURAL SUBSTRATUM
     For years, it is the common notion that a woman is not an authentic woman if she does not bear a child, that is, the husband’s child in a monogamous or even in a polygamous marriage.  Furthermore, if a woman refuses to bear a child, then that woman is either condemned or seen with less value as compared to other women who readily submit themselves to the will of their phallic structured society to bear a child.  As Michel Foucault points out in The History of Sexuality regarding the hysterization of women’s bodies beginning in the 18th century:
The feminine body was analyzed———qualified and disqualified———as being thoroughly saturated with sexuality; whereby it was integrated into the sphere of medical practices, by reason of a pathology intrinsic to it; whereby, finally, it was placed in organic communication with the social body (whose regulated fecundity it was supposed to ensure), the family space (of which it had to be a substantial and functional element), and the life of children (which it produced and had to guarantee, by virtue of a biologico-moral responsibility lasting through the entire period of the children’s education): the Mother, with her negative image of “nervous woman,” constituted the most visible form of hysterization.[53]
     From this remark of Michel Foucault, it is clear that in the past, child bearing has been made obligatory, necessary and even mandatory simply because of the perceived epistemological paradigm unveiled by the anatomical science. Such epistemological paradigm is supposed to be a mere paradigm, that is, a model. However, such model has been made universal and necessary instead of being contingent. By making what is supposed to be contingent as universal and necessary, this state of affair has led to the creation of a coerced body leading to the creation of a sexuality that is repressed and forced towards the socialization of procreative act, and its ultimate consequence is the neglect, marginalization and disregard for one’s subjectivity. 
With the advent of the feminist movement, the notion of a woman as a mere natural substratum or receptacle of the seed implanted by the male subject has been changed and reformed to some extent. It has widened the woman’s identity. Women now have a choice whether or not to bear a child. Unfortunately, there are still exceptions in some communities in some countries where women are still imprisoned and entangled in the view that they are just mere receptacle of the seed and where some women still remain not emancipated and not enlightened, with no freedom to give their own subjectivity a voice.  Samira’s experience can be cited as a concrete example.  Samira is a Yemeni who was married to a Yemeni cousin at the age of 15. Samira remarks in an interview made by IRIN:
It is normal to marry at age 12 in my village.  You can't choose the man you’re going to live with.[54]
The following year after her first marriage, Samira had her first child. Because of giving birth at a very young age, Samira suffered from complications. For 10 days after the birth, Samira suffered from bleeding.  During the 16 days she spent in the hospital, she could not walk or hold her baby.  Triggered by the loss of blood during her first childbirth, Samira, who was already 28 years old at the time of the interview, continues to suffer from deep-vein thrombosis. She continues to have pains in her legs and often goes to the hospital.  Because of her medical problems, due to giving birth at an early age, and the fact that she is now separated from her second husband, Samira is prevented from maintaining employment in the capital, Sana'a. Naseem Ur Rehman elaborates his observation in an interview made by IRIN on the persistence of early marriage in Yemen:
Early marriage is one of the biggest development challenges in Yemen. This is because no groups have yet outgrown the practice. Marriage usually ends a girl’s educational prospects, which has wide implications for development in a country with one of the largest education gaps in the world. A mother who is not educated is imprisoned, and is trapped in the cycle of reproduction.[55]

Sharing the same perspective on the persistence of early marriage, in a 2004 study, sponsored by Oxfam UK, the Shima study reveals to IRIN that “throughout all segments of Yemeni society, Yemenis have given a high value on the virginity and moral virtue of girls, and this places pressure on families to marry their girls earlier so as to reduce the possibility of premarital sex.”[56] 
The experience of Samira alone represents the plight of some women in the world where these women are trapped by the practice of some cultures that place so much value and significance towards early marriage, thus, treating women as mere commodities who are valuable only as mere “receptacles of the seed” of life.  This unfortunate, sorrowful and agonizing state of affair in life can be traced back to the phallic structured society. Luce Irigaray confirms this given assertion:
Our civilization are lacking in two respects; they present us with two repressions, two injustices or anomalies: (1) women, who have given life and growth to the other within themselves, are excluded from the order of the same which men alone set up and (2) the girl child although conceived by a man an a woman, doesn’t enter as the father’s child with the same status as that accorded the son.   She remains outside culture, kept as a natural body good only for procreation.[57]
     Even with the advent of the feminist movement, some residues of women’s oppression because of phallic structured society engendering exclusion can still be seen.   Despite the mushrooming of different women’s groups, NGO’s and organizations seeking to promote not only “equality” in certain aspects of social and civil lives, but also the need to recognize and to respect the differences between the sexes, much efforts have still to be done to fully liberate women from their utilitarian significance in the procreative process and in the satisfaction of a masculinist centered desires.  This is the reason why in many families in the Philippines, some fathers and surprisingly some mothers tell their daughters, “saan ka laengen nga agadal iti collegio anak ko; umdasen nga ammom iti agbasa ken agsurat gapu ta iti saan nga agbayag ket maasawaan kanto ket masapul nga agtalinaed ka iti uneg iti balay ta napinpintas met laeng nga adayo no sika a mismo ti mangtaripato kadaguiti annak mo ken iti agbalin to nga asawam.”[58]    
Driving deeper the socially constructed view that treats women as mere “receptacles of the seed,” is the notion of visibility and default. In the psychoanalytic theory developed by Sigmund Freud, Freud postulates that “the little girl is a little boy where the clitoris of the former is deemed as a mere penis equivalent.”[59]  Explaining this postulate of Sigmund Freud concerning a woman, Luce Irigaray writes:
Women’s castration is defined as her having nothing you can see, as her having nothing. In her having nothing penile, in seeing that she has No Thing.   Nothing like man. That is to say, no sex/organ that can be seen in a form capable of founding in reality, reproducing its truth.[60]
     However, this Freudian notion on the very nature and constitution of a woman has only led to a very unfortunate and skewed understanding of a woman. This Freudian notion simply caters to the perpetuation of passivity as a determining nature of femininity and aggressiveness as the determining nature of masculinity. Luce Irigaray writes as a reaction to Freud’s notion of a woman as a castrated male:
She remains forsaken and abandoned in her lack, default, absence, envy, etc. and is led to submit, to follow the dictates issued univocally by the sexual desire, discourse and law of man. Of the father, in the first instance.[61]
     This notion of absence and default has now caused women in a patriarchal society to tame their sexual and at the same time physical drives and energies——repressed sexuality. To make this point clearer, women have to be narcissistic in a patriarchal society and women are expected to act and to behave in a tender and gentle manner; otherwise, doing the contrary could make those people whose consciousness are conditioned by the mimetic order to call them flirts or bitches. This notion now of absence and default in women has caused the very understanding of men and women in a phallocratic ordered society that what is readily protruding and visible are signs of power or authority while that which does not protrude and remains invisible, such as a “hole,” is a sign of subordination and passivity. This is further manifested by the customary practice of bowing the head before a personality or a prominent figure of authority.  The structure of the person bowing is in the form of a curved line (vagina) as indicative of passivity and subordination while the structure of the person bowed upon is in the form of a vertical line (penis) as indicative of aggressiveness and sovereignty.  Oum Mohammed’s experience can be cited to exemplify the above point.  Oum Mohammed is an Egyptian who married at a very young age of 16 just like Samira.  Her marriage has caused her so much pain and trauma.  Her marriage to a man who constantly beats her and who has simply treated her as mere “hole” shows the passive and subservient status because of her lack and default.  She is deemed incapable of creating her own truth and establishing her own being as a person.  Oum Mohammed imparts her experience of domestic violence, perpetuated by her husband, in an interview made by IRIN:
From the day I married him, he hit me over matters big and small. He told me that all women should be beaten.   I didn’t protest because I was afraid he’d throw me and my children into the street. I’d seen my father hit my mother, and in every house in the alley a man hits a woman.[62]
IRIN reports that Oum Mohammed’s story is just one of 700 case studies that the Association for the Development and Enhancement of Women (ADEW), a local NGO, has collected over the past several years.  IRIN further reports: 
According to the NGO, domestic abuse is common in Egypt. A 2001 survey conducted in low-income neighborhoods found that 96 percent of women had been beaten at least once by their husbands.  Such violence is often condoned by society, or even by the victims, experts’ say. A majority of the women surveyed in a government study, for example, said a husband had the right to beat his wife if she talked to him disrespectfully, talked to another man, spent too much money or refused her husband sex. If a woman goes to the police station to report domestic abuse, the police adopt “the cultural perspective that the man has the right to do it”, says ADEW officer Bahira El-Gohary.[63]   
But why do women in a phallic structured society readily submit to their castration? Citing the psychoanalytic tradition developed by Freud, women readily submit to the idea of their castration because from the very beginning of their development as human beings, they have been already conditioned, educated and made to believe that the phallus is the emblem of human sexual pleasure.  In a society whose cultural-sexual values have been conditioned by the paradigm of sexual pleasure advocated by the mimetic theory, the phallus has been made as the “master-signifier" in terms of power in the cultural-sexual domain.  Having made the phallus as the emblem of human pleasure, women are sociologically conditioned to desire an actual penis be it directly or indirectly since women possess only a mere penis equivalent. Women are conditioned to affirm the invisibility of their vagina because of the claim that the penis is that which is readily perceived and visible.   The above elaborated perspective coupled with the linguistic currencies at work in a phallic constituted society perpetuate this made-to-believe myth of “castration complex”[64] imbued in the psyche of women. 
     Sigmund Freud and all those cultural norms that have been constituted and conditioned by the mimetic order are to be blamed for the immediate submission of women to their castration and to what Michel Foucault describes as the “hysterization of the bodies of women.”  However, to some extent Sigmund Freud has also opened a door through which the idea of sexual difference is to be argued. But it remains that Freud’s notion of the vagina’s invisibility has been deeply embedded into the consciousness of women who still remain to be enslaved and imprisoned by the phallocratic paradigm of pleasure.
     In addition, women who are still enslaved by the phallocratic paradigm of pleasure easily submit themselves to the idea of their castration because their desire for an actual and real penis is rooted in their imposed notion of what is sexually valuable.  These women who are deemed to be “envious of the penis” see the penis more valuable than the vagina. This is because of the phallic conditioned and imposed belief that the visibility of the phallus signifies power, especially since the phallus may even play hide and seek, that is, the phallus is hidden when not erect and not hidden when erect. The phallus has been made as the emblem of sexual pleasure. Since the one who thrust is the visible-penis and the one to be thrusted is the invisible-hole-vagina, power as an attribute has been directed and concentrated on the phallus.  The problem now with this kind of libidinal linguistic economy is the conditioning of women’s mind by a masculine paradigm of sexual pleasure. As a result, these notions of visibility and invisibility have created a paradigm where women in a phallocratic society have been conditioned if not forced to readily accept the idea of their artificial castration and default. With the acceptance of the idea of their artificial castration, some cultural norm and traditions have blindly accepted the fact that women are valuable only as subjects because of their functional and valuable role in the process of procreation as “receptacles of the seed” of life. 
Indeed, a phallic constituted culture conditioned by the belief on the mimetic order can be seen as a culture characterized by exclusion. The origin of this culture of exclusion is in the “patriarchal social body that constructs itself hierarchically excluding differences.”[65] On the other hand, the “female body engenders respect for differences through one of its distinctive features of tolerating the other’s growth within itself without incurring illness or death for either one on the living organisms.”[66] In this regard, bring forth a profound understanding of who women are, people need to liberate themselves from the orthodox perspectives that women are useful only as a natural substratum.

OBJECTIFICATION OF PERSONS
The possible experience of repression that is grounded on the sexuality of a person does not only take place through the institutionalization of bio-power, the promotion of the phallic structured belief on the mimetic order, the presence of exclusive laws and the dominance of phallic linguistic currencies, including the strict adherence to the concept of natural substratum. The possible experience of a repressed sexuality in a disciplinary phallic centered society may also occur through the objectification of persons.[67] When a person is treated by another person as an object instead of a subject, such treatment does not only have a saddening effect upon the sexual aspect of the person but also upon the “kabuuan” of the person objectified.  Since the sexual aspect of the person is considered to be an indispensable aspect of the “kabuuan” of the human person, whatever happens to this aspect would definitely affect the person as a whole, his/her totality. When a person is objectified by being instrumentalized by another person without regard to the humanity of the former, an undeniable and lingering fact remains, that is, the self has been devalued. Henceforth, when in a state of objectification, it necessitates immediate action to make the devalued self experience a valorized “kabuuan.”
Each person is endowed with a lot of potentials and capabilities to actualize. It is when these potentials and capabilities are actualized that a person is enabled to fully understand her(him)self as a subject. Having a lot of potentials and capabilities to actualize, specifically that potential to give depth and meaning to human existence, makes the human person primordially a subject. This is an ontological fact, meaning, a human person is a being that exists in a community of beings.  
To elucidate the idea of human person as primordially a subject, of all beings in this world, it is only the human person who is capable of generating and initiating meanings in this life.   When for example someone kicks one of the pillars of a wooden table or chair, slaps the face or punches any part of the body of a human size stuffed toy, the table, the chair and the stuffed toy certainly do not mind what happened. The items would definitely not show any manifestations of hurt feelings or emotions.  However, if the same act would be done to a person, then the person as a giving-meaning existent subject will certainly show manifestations of hurt feelings or emotions.   Probably, if the person is still experiencing a reasoned emotion immediately after the incident, then the person would be asking some questions why such act has been made to her/him; otherwise, the person would have already retaliated in the same manner. Another example is when one kicks a sleeping dog or cat on the mat.  If the dog or cat is fully trained in a culture of “blind obedience,” then the dog or cat would immediately run away out of fright; otherwise, the dog or cat would immediately bite the person in the leg or any part of his/her body. While brute animals are capable of experiencing pain, unlike the table, chair and stuffed toy, brute animals are not capable of giving meaning to their experience of pain, unlike the human being as a giving meaning-existent subject.  Following the anthropological-existential view that the human person is fundamentally the center, the source of depth and initiative in the cosmos, the human person therefore is primordially a subject.  
As the source of depth, meaning and initiative in the cosmos, persons are differentiated from other beings in the world such as from brute animals, things, objects and stuffs.  As an unfinished project, a project still in progress, the human person is constantly in the process of becoming as a subject-being. Thus, persons have to continuously give and generate assertive meanings in their day to day existence in their encounter with the others around them. Nevertheless, as giving-meaning existent subjects, it does not mean that persons cannot be anymore objectified by other subjects. Others as linguistic agencies can always generate meanings that can either disable or enable the understanding of who persons are and what they are as subjects who desire and who are desired, that is, as subjects with sexuality.  Objectification is made clearer by Martha Nussbaum explanation, that one objectifies another when “one is treating as an object what is really not an object, what is, in fact a human being.”[68]    In this connection, when a person treats another as a thing which is not actually a person but already a thing, there is no such act properly called as an objectifying act.  As Martha Nussbaum elaborates:
Treating things as objects is not objectification, because as I have suggested, objectification entails making into a thing, treating as a thing, something that is really not a thing.[69]
For instance, when a sandbag or a heavy bag or even the trunk of a banana tree is utilized for kickboxing training, such use or the instrumentalization of these things is not properly called objectification. While delivering certain styles of punches or kicks to the sandbag, heavy bag or trunk, any of these things are already devoid of autonomy and subjectivity which are proper determining characteristics of a person but not things. Thus, the term objectification is only proper to be used within the context where what is to be objectified as Nussbaum claims is a person not a thing.
It can be observed that in many societies, some individuals because of their chosen, “pagkatao” or “kinatao” or because of their having a particular form of sexuality are at greater risk of experiencing sexual repression or marginalization, specifically by being objectified through their instrumentalization as persons without regard to their humanity.  In Pakistan, despite the declaration of the practice of “vani” as illegal, there are still some supportive adherents who are continuously perpetuating such objectifying practice.  As a result of this practice, some Pakistani women have been instrumentalized without regard to their humanity as persons by being forced to enter into a marriage against their will.  “Vani” is “the traditional Pakistani practice whereby girls or young women are used as compensation for a crime committed and as a means of settling feuds between two families or clans.”[70]   One victim of this practice is the granddaughter of Fareedullah Khan and Sakina Bibi who both support a new campaign against the practice. As reported by IRIN:
Nearly 20 years ago, their granddaughter became a “vani” to pay for a murder committed by her paternal uncle.   She has since lived a life of misery, as a virtual slave within the home of a husband 30 years her senior.[71]
The case of Fareedullah Khan and Sakina Bibi’s granddaughter is just a few among the many cases of “vani” documented and undocumented.  The problem posed by the practice of “vani” is the fact that women who are objectified and instrumentalized in this practice are treated as enemies. They are treated as domestic slaves, recepients of domestic violence or as mere sex slaves since these women were simply married by their male partners out of anger, hatred, revenge, vengeance, and retribution. If vengeance and retribution are the mere moving factors behind the practice of “vani”, then it is expected that the life of the woman subjected to a forced marriage will be wretched.  As Fareedullah told IRIN that “the girls handed over to rival families are innocent of the crime committed by a relative, and they are always treated like enemies within the homes of their spouses.”[72]  In the practice of “vani,” young women are reduced to mere tradable and consumable goods.  As such, these women are unquestionably and absolutely denied not only of autonomy but also of subjectivity as persons.  In this scenario, women subjected to “vani” are practically persons whose “pagkatao” and “kabuuan” are devalued. Since sexuality is an indispensable aspect of the totality of the person, its devaluation means the devaluation of the persons as a whole.
Besides the practice of “vani” that places young women at greater risk of objectification, another vehicle of objectification is pornography. Pornography refers to films, magazines, writings, photographs or other materials portraying sexually explicit subordination of either men or women, maybe both in a humiliating, violent, degrading, depersonalizing and dehumanizing way, and intended simply to stimulate sexual elation or delight in their audience. 
In contrast, erotica refers to sexually candid materials that depict and represent men and women in a stance or a posture showing and conveying mutual regard and respect. Distinction between the two materials is facilitated by what Martha Nussbaum presents in Sex and Social Justice, that “the over all context of the material and the sense in the work as a whole”[73] must be considered. To illustrate this point are the following instances: (1) a woman either through force or violence or with consent while constantly being whipped in the butt is at the same time being penetrated by three men, one in her anus, one in her mouth and one in her vagina, (2) a man either through force or violence or with consent while constantly being whipped in the butt is at the same time being lined up by ten men to be penetrated in his anus and in his mouth by two men at the same time, (3) a pregnant woman either through force or violence or with consent displaying herself naked while inserting a foreign object on her vagina, (4) a minor, be it a boy or girl being ravished sexually in an animalistic and barbaric way by a person of age while the arms and the legs of the minor are tied on the four columns supporting the bed. Given these examples and similar analogous examples appearing in any document or material, the over-all context where these representations appear and the sense of these representations as a whole must be considered. Specifically, it must be studied whether the primary purpose is to simply objectify a person without regard for the humanity of the person, whether the person is taken as an object be it temporarily or permanently, or to inform persons of certain sexual behaviors that are conventionally considered to be abhorrent in order that persons will be given an opportunity to think and reflect for themselves to achieve a kind of autonomy as moral agents.  
Given the importance of being informed as an audience or reader about the overall context of the material and the sense in the work as a whole, the truth is, not all audience or readers are reasonably capable of acknowledging the indispensable need of determining the overall context of the material and the sense in the work as a whole.  Some audience or readers are not mature enough to know the importance of the over all context of the material and the sense in the work as a whole. This could be the reason why most states in the world and other institutions are so concerned with the spread of pornography in order to safeguard and to protect the sexuality of the young with the aim of making these young persons reasonable sexual beings later. Furthermore, some audience or readers are mentally capable of knowing the indispensable need of determining the overall context of the material and the sense in the work as a whole, but they simply take certain erotic or sexual materials literally or simply appreciate these materials on their face value. In this case, the problem of objectification through the perpetuation of pornographic images without regard to the humanity of persons could not be completely eradicated even with the presence of state or institutional regulations.
Living in a society where people have been culturally eroticized to see women as passive and men as active, women have been accorded the role as objects while men as objectifiers.  Martha Nussbaum shares the same view in a commentary she made on Andrea Dworkin on pornography:
Pornography standardly portrays the will of women in a fictive male viewpoint, expressing the thought that they want to be used as things for male pleasure.[74]  
     Nothing  may be wrong posing oneself in an erogenous and erotic manner or depicting a person or persons in erogenous and erotic manner or circumstances provided that and given that one is not objectified in the process in a humiliating, depersonalizing and dehumanizing way. However, living in a phallic ordered society that has widely celebrated the treatment of women as mere objects while men serve as objectifiers, posing oneself or depicting person or persons in an erogenous and erotic manner shall only perpetuate the present object-status and the objectifier-status that currently exists and pervades in societies. Newspapers——Bomba Balita, Night Life, Iskandal, Baliktaran Toro and Hataw which are all tabloid newspapers of national circulation in the Philippines——constantly present pictures of scantily clad women on their front covers.  Aside from these newspapers, some sexually-loaded magazines also proliferate such as For Him Magazine (popularly known as FHM) and Maxim, both of national and international circulation.  Classified as lad magazines, these magazines basically feature pictures of scantily clad women accompanied by articles about women (usually models actresses or singers), consumer stories about cars, tools, and toys, tales of sex and interviews of famous and not so famous women regarding their daily routines, sexual experiences and fantasies.  What is considered “special” in these magazines is their annual feature of “FHM 100 Sexiest Women in the World” and “Maxims Hot 100.”  Analyzing the process how women are ranked, they are not essentially ranked according to their significant social achievements or influences but they are ranked primarily based on their sexual appeal, their sexual bearing to the audience (specifically to the objectifying male gaze) or their stimulating beauty towards the completion of one’s libidinal desires.  This mode of ranking simply reinforces the phallic view of according women the object-status while men the objectifier-status. More sexually explicit magazines are Playboy, Hustler and Penthouse just to name a few among the many porn magazines of international circulation. Classified as porn magazines, unlike Maxim and FHM, these magazines rely heavily on vulgar and explicit depictions of women usually subordinated in totally naked postures either on their own or being penetrated by a single man or being penetrated by a number of men.  These kinds of magazines simply glorify the exchangeability and tradability of sex and sexual partners.  Martha Nussbaum shares the same view:
For Playboy depicts a thoroughgoing fungibility and commodification of sex partners and, in the process, severs sex from any deep connection with self-expression or emotion.[75]  
     She further elaborates the tradability and exchangeability of persons behind the pursued Playboy utilitarian philosophy of maximizing the experience of phallic oriented pleasure:
The magazine is all about the competition of men with other men, and its message is the availability of a readily renewable supply of more or less fungible women to men who have achieved a certain level of prestige and money, or rather, that fantasy women of this sort are available, through the magazine, to those who can fantasize that they have achieved this status.[76] 
Both lad and porn magazines, including those tabloid newspapers mentioned, promote and perpetuate the exchangeability and tradability of persons as sexual beings.  Portrayals and depictions of persons in an erogenous, sexy and erotic manner normally have women as characters.  This can be traced back to the mimetic order[77] that shapes and influences the mindsets of persons to think and act in a phallic constituted society in a cultural-sexual framework that treats and molds women as subservient, passive and submissive sexual beings.   Consequently, when a woman does not display the expected subservient, passive, and submissive deportments, the phallic constituted society to where she exists would definitely call her a “bitch,” “flirtatious,” or “sexually dangerous” woman. 
The mimetic order, on the other hand, treats and molds boys and men to be sexually eroticized to adopt and exemplify aggressive, active and forceful deportments fitting a man; otherwise, the society would stereotype the male person as “butch but fem.” Men as can be seen in phallic constituted societies do not become a person in their “absence,” “lack,” “default” or in simply having a “hole,” but men achieve their personhood by having the exceptional phallus as the “master-signifier” in the domain where a masculine/phallic/heterosexual paradigm of pleasures is operational and deeply revered.  
The above perspective explains the greater objectification of women as compared to men because men are more recognized socially as more than just bodies to be instrumentalized.   Relative to this, Linda Brannon in Gender asserts:
Societies that restrict childhood sexuality tend to do so not only through restricting intercourse, but also by limiting information about sex, prohibiting masturbation, and enforcing different standards of sexual behavior for men and women, that is, sexually restrictive societies tend to have a double standard and put more restrictions on the sexuality of girls and women than on that of boys and men.[78] 
Restrictive societies, which bear the dominance of phallic attributes, have placed so much restriction on the sexuality of girls and women.  Women in phallic constituted societies are seen like priced objects.  The primary reason is the phallic structured belief that girls and women are persons who possess “exceptional holes.”[79] Luce Irigaray shares the same view with Linda Brannon on how women are sexually repressed in the cultural-sexual domain in order to become a woman, Irigaray posits:
“Woman’s own constitution” demanded she repress all signs of aggressivity, a repression encouraged by “social custom” and certainly also by the “sexual function” that we recognize in or attribute to her.[80]
She further discusses on how a woman labors to become a woman within a masculine paradigm of pleasure:
Her precociousness in the controlled production of feces, of language, of social relationships whose relation to the production and circulation of currency you will be familiar with would thus be envisaged as merely the effect of her desire to function, herself, as “merchandise.” Her childish superiority would be motivated simply by the desire to appear the most attractive of all negotiable assets.[81]
The fact is, persons displaying themselves in an erogenous, sexy and erotic manner most especially on the part of women will always pose a potential problem in their lives as sexual beings and eventually to their “kabuuan” provided that the existing cultural values of the societies are still deeply rooted in the cultural-sexual framework advocated by the mimetic order.  
In addition to pornography and the practice of “vani,” prostitution has over the years dehumanized and depersonalized a person by being objectified through instrumental treatment. An illustration is the experience of Hassan Feiraz, who at the age of 16 years old, has commenced a desolate and miserable life after being compelled to enter a sex trade in Baghdad under the threat of street gangs. In an interview made by IRIN with Hassan Feiraz, Feiraz shares in public his grim experience of prostitution:
Every day I cry at night. I’m a homosexual and was forced to work as a prostitute because one of the people I had sex with took pictures of me in bed and said that, if I didn’t work for him, he was going to send the pictures to my family.  My life is a disaster today. I could be killed by my family to restore their honor since homosexuality was totally unacceptable in Iraq due to religious beliefs.  Many of us are working under threat, but others are there because they don’t know how to survive and found it as an easy way of getting money.  Someone should help free us from these criminals.[82]
Hassan’s experience of prostitution shows the usually neglected fact that not all homosexuals are persons who readily portray themselves as sex starved persons willing to be penetrated, to penetrate someone or to pleasure someone in any erogenous manner in order to experience sexual pleasure in return.  Furthermore, the experience of Hassan was included in this project to give emphasis also on the fact that homosexual men are also targets of prostitution either through force or with consent. Besides Hassan, Um Zacarias’ two teenage sons were also lured in the commercial sex trade in Baghdad not because of force or fraud this time unlike what happened with Hassan but through the compelling need to survive. Um Zacarias shares how her two teenage sons who were then 13 years old and 14 years old entered the commercial sex trade in Baghdad:
We are poor family and my husband cannot work because he has serious epilepsy. Abu Weled (a ring leader that operates prostitution dens in Baghdad) came to our house offering us money if we let our teenage boys work with them. Thanks to him, today we have a good income. People may find it surprising, but at least we can eat now and I’m proud of them.[83]
The experience of Hassan Feiraz and Um Zacarias’ two boys are just few among the many individuals lured in the commercial sex trade either through a vitiated consent or perfectly informed consent.  For a wider understanding of prostitution, the most spoken reasons are enumerated as follows: (1) some are prostituted because of fraud, threat, violence or force, just like in the case  of Hassan Feiraz; (2) some freely and voluntarily engage themselves in the commercial sex trade to finance their vices or their luxurious material needs; (3) some  freely and voluntarily engage themselves in the commercial sex trade because of poverty, just like in the case of Um Zacarias two boys; (4) some freely and voluntarily engage themselves in the commercial sex trade to satisfy their own personal libidinal desires; and (5) some freely and voluntarily engage themselves in the commercial sex trade either to satisfy their own personal libidinal desires or to use prostitution as a form of rebellion to a very exclusionist phallic constituted family or society, just like some gay persons thrown out in the family because of their sexuality.  
While some likened prostitution with other jobs that involve the use of mental and physical capabilities to earn a money, it is still again another mode through which the “master-signifier” gains access to the “exceptional hole”[84] or to a mere “hole”[85] in a mere transient and in an immediately ready consumable way without any  commitment.  Prostitution guarantees the utilitarian transformation of human bodies into a mere utility. Prostitution can never guarantee regard for human dignity. What is problematic and objectionable is the treatment of persons as mere utilities, that is, in a Kantian perspective, the treatment of persons as simply means not as ends. Prostitution simply breeds and encourages the continuous and unceasing tradability and commodification of sex partners, consequently, severing sex from any deep and intimate connection as the profound expression of a person’s individuality as a sexual being.     
In addition, prostitution also breeds and encourages potential violence on the ground of sex and sexuality.  Some sexual workers have been killed violently or have suffered from slight, serious or grave physical injuries for their refusal to perform the customer’s desired way of being pleasured or their failure as sex workers to provide the expected form of sexual pleasure that the customer is expecting. Some unsuspecting erotic workers who are in themselves persons enough to give their trust to customers are left teary eyed, demeaned, and belittled. After being used as mere bodies or as mere “holes,” they can be victims of fraud from malicious and fraudulent users, that is, they are not paid for their services.   There is nothing that is more sexually repressive and marginalizing than using a person sexually and then run away from the obligation that one as a user has agreed upon with the person used.   After one is sexually used, and then left with an empty hand is something that creates a negative image in the psyche of the person as having no value or having a depreciated value.  It can potentially lead to self-alienation or its symptoms such as the loss of respect for oneself as a person. Prostitution, therefore, from whatever perspective or angle boils down to the objectification of human bodies as mere utilities, things or means because of what a person can do or give through sex by way of the person’s sexuality.

CONCLUDING REMARKS

     The discussion made above has presented three pedagogical mechanisms at play in a disciplinary society namely, sexuality made as a domain of panoticized experience by the science of sexuality, the institutionalization of bio-power, and the phallic structured belief on the mimetic order. As pedagogical mechanisms, they are power discourses and paradigms which are kept in place by institutional power brokers and agents like schools, churches, families, states, and other similar institutions. Through the intermediary or prescription of these power brokers and agents, these pedagogical mechanisms are strategized and utilized to wield power, control and dominion over the persons of individuals, to include their bodies, souls, desires, dreams, and aspirations.
The science of sexuality has depicted sex as a worldly experience or a carnal vice of the flesh portrayed to the extreme with a tendency to produce a dirty, shameful and sinful experience not only to the body of the person but penetrating also the soul. This depiction of sex can be observed through the obsession of certain societies of the confessional, specifically those societies that were cultivated starting from medieval Western societies.  With such portrayal of sex by the science of sexuality, the sexual aspect perceived to be an indispensable aspect of the totality of an individual has to be constantly monitored for a possible transgression of the flesh.
The institutionalization of bio-power, on the other hand, aimed to regulate life and to exercise some power over life. In order to attain this objective, individual bodies of persons and populations have to be subjected to the mechanistic strategies of a disciplinary society for their standardization and normalization. The process of individualization is achieved into what is called the sexualization of persons. This sexualization of persons can only take place through the standardizations or normalizations of behaviors and desires anchored on the supposed “pagkatao” of the person. This kind of individualization process in a disciplinary society is a means of social partitioning keeping in place the dominant and prevailing libidinal-sexual culture. The resulting consequence of this process is the creation of socially constructed behaviors and desires that are not in conformity with the standard, with the normal or with the moral leading to the oppression, discrimination and marginalization of some sectors of the society on account of sex or their sexuality.
Furthermore, the phallic structured belief on the mimetic order has contributed on the way persons of unorthodox sexualities are viewed.  This belief on the mimetic order has provided the very foundation through which the notion of unintelligible genders is articulated on the basis of “intelligible genders.” Likewise, “intelligible genders” are accorded their cultural legitimacy status not only because of the belief on the mimetic order, but also because of the principle that came out as a result of the phallic structured belief on this order. This principle refers to the “principle of coherence and continuity.” Because of not having subservient identities or simply because of having non-conformist genders in accordance to the “principle of coherence and continuity,” some persons would have to bear the experience of being stereotyped, scorned, hated, insulted, ostracized, dehumanized, and objectified because of their sex or their sexuality.
Under the discussion on exclusive laws and phallic linguistic currencies, sexual repression, marginalization, and discrimination arise not only from skewed and distorted manner of eroticism through the conditioning made by cultures and values that are anchored and fixated with the teachings of the mimetic order, but also from laws.  Laws, though they serve as islets of empowerment, may also serve as atolls or islets of exclusion that do not promote the necessary respect and recognition of differences among individuals.  Laws can become vessels of marginalization and disempowerment.
With the discussion made on the concept of natural substratum, restricting the personhood of a woman to her indispensable role in the procreative process could only lead to a limited and phallic constrained view on who a woman is.  Women instead should be considered as beings that embody toleration and respect for difference as concretely expressed through nurturing another human life in the maternal womb for nine months or less. As stated earlier, in order to bring forth a profound understanding of who women are, people need to move beyond the orthodox perspectives that women are useful only as a natural substratum.
On the discussion on the objectification of persons, it is worth noting that when a person is objectified and treated as mere sexual instrument or tool, there is a great risk and possibility of depriving and repressing the extensive utilization and enhancement of a person’s real sexual energies and prowess.  To the person simply treated as a mere body, tool or instrument (usually in this case the person being referred to is the woman), alienation of personhood is the most probable consequence. Self-alienation may take the form of the loss of self-respect, self-esteem, and self-worth.
With all the discussion made above, involving the pedagogical mechanisms at play in a disciplinary society, the challenge now is this, can we possibly think differently from those socially constructed universals, paradigms, norms and standards? Is there a way for us to challenge these pedagogical mechanisms to loosen their grip upon us so we could rise above having submissive docile bodies devoid of emancipatory and liberative consciousness as autonomous rational subjects? As “power produces reality, domains of objects, and rituals of truth”[86] in a disciplinary society like ours, Michel Foucault leaves us something to ponder upon about the need to think differently. Nonetheless, this inquisitiveness is not the inquisitiveness to embrace and to conform to what is deemed appropriate and fitting for a person to be knowledgeable, but that which empowers a person to be emancipated or to be liberated from (he)rself.    Michel Foucault puts in:
After all, what would be the value of the passion for knowledge if it resulted only in a certain amount of knowledgeableness and not, in one way or another and to the extent possible, the knower’s straying afield of himself?  There are times in life when the question of knowing if one can think differently than one thinks, and perceive differently that one sees, is absolutely necessary if one is to go on looking and reflecting at all.[87] 




[1] This paper is a revised version of a paper presented by the author in an LGBT Forum on the 26 of November 2014 at Gerard Decaestecker Building, Saint Louis University with the theme, “LGBT Forum: Understanding the Closet.”
[2] In a Foucultian perspective, docile bodies refer to a body that is subjected, or used or transformed or improved for the benefit of the great scheme of things or at the advantage of a disciplinary society or as a means of keeping the social order or as a means of social partitioning. Michel Foucault, Discipline and Punish: The Birth of the Prison, trans. Alan Sheridan, (New York: Random House, Inc., 1977), 136.
[3] The term panopticized (of Benthamian origin) experience refers to that experience of one’s sexuality as a domain that must be closely watched and monitored because of its perceived influence on the totality of the person.
[4] Michel Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, trans. Robert Hurley, (New York: Penguin Books, 1978), 57-58.
[5] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 57.
[6] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 58.

[7] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 58.
[8] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 61-62.
[9] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 61.
[10] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 63.
[11] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 65.
[12] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 65-66.

[13] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 68.
[14] “Temple of The Kama Sutra,” Discovery Communications, Inc.
[15] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 60.
[16] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 138.   
[17] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 143.   
[18] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 145. 
[19] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 146.   
[20] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 146.
[21] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 146.   
[22] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 139.   
[23] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 147   
[24] The Revised Penal Code of the Philippines, Article 89, section 1.
[25] Sigmund Freud, “Femininity,” in the Philosophy of Woman, ed. Mary Briody Mahowald, (USA: Hackett Publishing Company, 1983), 304.
[26] Luce Irigaray, Speculum of the Other Woman, trans. By Gillian C. Gill (New York: Cornell University Press, 1992), 15.
[27] Anatomical model is a term used by Luce Irigaray in the Speculum.   According to Irigaray, such model has postulated that having a penis is concrete evidence that you are masculine and by having a vagina is concrete evidence that you are feminine.   Irigaray counter-argue such claim by asserting that the anatomical model simply gives us a description of femininity and masculinity if not giving a vague and inexact model to take hold of the characteristic of masculinity and femininity.
[28] “Intelligible” genders are those which in some sense institute and maintain relations of coherence and continuity among sex, gender, sexual practice and desire.   In other words, the spectres of discontinuity and incoherence, themselves thinkable only in relation to existing norms of continuity and coherence, are constantly prohibited and produced by the very laws that seek to establish causal or expressive lines of connection among biological sex, culturally constituted genders, and the “expression” or “effect” of both in the manifestation of sexual desire through sexual practice, [Judith Butler, Gender Trouble: Feminism and the Subversion of Identity, (Great Britain: Routledge, 1999), 23].
[29] This principle as construed by Judith Butler vis-à-vis to the “intelligible genders” means that biological givenness (male and female) are seen to cause gender (man and woman) that, in return, is perceived to cause desire (with respect to the other gender).
[30] It is now in this perspective that statements that stereotype persons for their subservient sexualities are made like “pusong mamon,” “malambot na bakal,” “he is an excellent basketball player BUT he is gay,” “he is good in martial arts BUT he is gay,” she has a sexy body and appears quite feminine BUT she is a lesbian, “she appears and speaks like a true woman BUT she is not,” etc.
[31] Dawn Betteridge is the director of Triangle Project.   Triangle Project is a Cape Town based NGO that provides support for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community in South Africa.
[32] South Africa: Murder of Young Lesbian Sparks Homophobia Concerns, 20 February 2006, Integrated Regional Information Networks.
[33] See Iraq: Male Homosexuality Still a Taboo.
[34] Iran: Rights Groups Call on the UN to Investigate Executions Based on Sexual Orientation, 30 November 2005, Integrated Regional Information Networks.

[35] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 43.
[36] Judith Butler, Gender Trouble: Feminism and the Subversion of Identity, (Great Britain: Routledge, 1999), 184.
[37] Thomas Aquinas, Summa Theologica, In The Great Political Theories, Michael Curtis (ed.), (USA: HarperCollins, 1981), 196-197.
[38] Luce Irigaray, je, tu, nous, trans. By Alison Martin (New York: Routledge, 1993), 68-69.
[39] See Book 1, Title XIII. – Use of Surnames of the Civil Code of the Philippines.
[40] Irigaray, je, tu, nous, 31.
[41] See Article 75 of the Family Code of the Philippines.
[42] See Article 77 of the Family Code of the Philippines.
[43] See Article 91 and 92 of the Family Code of the Philippines.
[44] See Article 96 and 124 of the Family Code of the Philippines.
[45] Jose C. Vitug, Persons and Family Relations, (Philippines, Rex Bookstore, 2003), 306.
[46] See Article 211 of  The Family Code of the Philippines.
[47] See Article 225 of the Family Code of the Philippines.
[48] Pakistan: Focus on Gay Rights, 10 May 2005, Integrated Regional Information Networks.
[49] Honor Killing involves the slaying or murdering of a family member by a relative to protect the family’s name and reputation.
[50] See Iraq: Male Homosexuality Still a Taboo..
[51] Iraq: Focus on Boys Trapped in Commercial Sex Trade, 8 August 2005, Integrated Regional Information Networks.
[52] See the documentary of Hemisphere On Honor Killing and Forced Feeding, Australian version 25 May 2004.
[53] Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 1: The Will to Knowledge, 104.
[54] Yemen: Early Marriage a Challenge to Development, Experts Say, 26 March 2006, Integrated Regional Information Networks.
[55] Naseem Ur Rehman was once the chief information officer for UNICEF (United Nations Children’s Fund) in Sana’a.   See Yemen: Early Marriage a Challenge to Development, Experts Say.
[56] See Yemen: Early Marriage a Challenge to Development, Experts Say.
[57] Irigaray, je, tu, nous, 46.
[58] My daughter do not anymore take a college course; it would suffice that you already know how to read and to write because you will soon enter the domain of married life, and it is better if you will stay in the confines of the family home to personally take good care of your future children and your future husband.
[59] Freud, “Femininity,” in the Philosophy of Woman, 304.
[60]Irigaray, Speculum of the Other Woman, 48. 
[61] Irigaray, Speculum of the Other Woman, 49.
[62] Egypt: Abused Women Reluctant to Come Forward, 16 February 2006, Integrated Regional Information Networks.
[63] See Egypt: Abused Women Reluctant to Come Forward.
[64] Castration complex as described by Luce Irigaray in reaction to Sigmund Freud’s very phallic and skewed constitution of a woman refers to the contract, the collusion, between one sex/organ and the victory won by visual dominance that therefore leaves a woman with her sexual void, with an actual castration carried out in actual fact.   Consequently, a woman has the option of a neutral libido or of sustaining herself by penis envy, and she remains forsaken and abandoned in her lack, default, absence, envy, etc. and is led to submit, to follow the dictates issued univocally by the sexual desire, discourse and law of man, that is, the law of the father in the first instance.   In relation to the “master signifier,” the phallus, a woman appears as a “hole” in men’s linguistic signifying economy, Speculum 48-50.  This could be the reason why in the constitution of some words, it is always observed the “visibility” of the phallus such as in the following words: they, them, their, thee, she, this, there, then, either, neither, women, mother, grandmother, here, where, when, whence, history, theme, beautiful (rooted on the word “beau” which means boyfriend or male admirer), and other words that project the phallus as the seat of power.
[65] Irigaray, je, tu, nous, 45.
[66] Irigaray, je, tu, nous, 45.
[67] By objectification, I have in mind the instrumentalization of persons, the view of Martha Nussbaum is adopted that postulates that instrumentalization takes place when the objectifier (which is in this case a person) treats the object (which is also a person in this case) as a tool of his or her purposes. See Sex and Social Justice, 218.
[68] Nussbaum, Sex and Social Justice, 218.
[69] Nussbaum, Sex and Social Justice, 218.
[70] Pakistan: Focus on “Vani” – The Practice of Giving Away Young Women to Settle Feuds, 16 March 2006, Integrated Regional Information Networks. 
[71] See Pakistan: Focus on “Vani” – The Practice of Giving Away Young Women to Settle Feuds.
[72] See Pakistan: Focus on “Vani” – The Practice of Giving Away Young Women to Settle Feuds.

[73] Nussbaum, Sex and Social Justice, 248.
[74] Nussbaum, Sex and Social Justice, 246.
[75] Nussbaum, Sex and Social Justice, 234.
[76] Nussbaum, Sex and Social Justice, 235.
[77] Mimetic Order has conditioned, influenced and shaped our mindsets in a phallic constituted society that a man has the culturally eroticized status of “objectifier” as the “active” persona whereby the phallus is found (the phallus in this case is treated as the “master signifier” in terms of power in the cultural-sexual domain) while a woman is but fitting only to have the status of “object” as the “passive” persona whereby the vagina is found. 

[78] Linda Brannon, Gender, (Boston: Allyn and Bacon, 2002), 274.
[79]  Exceptional holes in as much as the vagina in a masculine/phallic paradigm of pleasure serves a double purpose.   First, the vagina as the primary locus in procreative process.   Second, the vagina enhances masculine libidinal desires by being penetrated into and in return providing the real envelopment that the penis seeks, thereby removing the solitary role assumed by the hands.
[80] Irigaray, Speculum of the Other Woman, 24.
[81] Irigaray, Speculum of the Other Woman, 24.
[82] See Iraq: Focus on Boys Trapped in Commercial Sex Trade.
[83] See Iraq: Focus on Boys Trapped in Commercial Sex Trade.
[84] The term exceptional hole is used to emphasize that women are oftentimes the victims of the commercial sex trade because women usually encounter few economic alternatives in their economic endeavors. Likewise, women are oftentimes the victims of the commercial sex trade because of the constant portrayal of the body of a woman in most movies, advertisements, magazines, newspapers, tabloids, etc as a mere tradable and fungible sexual commodity; thus, creating a sexually repressive image in the psyche of the objectifying male gaze by simply reducing women to their boobs, to their butts, to pussies, etc. Consequently, this modality of objectification in return perpetuates a “false consciousness” on most women by being alienated from their real selves as not mere bodies but also with subjectivities.  
[85] The term hole is also used to show that there are also male sex workers as shown from the two cases of that were just presented above because again of limited choices to choose from because of few economic alternatives.
[86] Foucault, Discipline and Punish, 194.
[87] Michel Foucault, The History of Sexuality, Vol. 2: The Use of Pleasure, trans. Robert Hurley, (New York: Penguin Books, 1984), 8.